Monday, September 3, 2012

Childhood Idol


          Red, tousled hair, green eyes, freckles, chocolate silk voice with a hint of the East Coast...and cigarettes...and the bedroom: Margaret. My mother’s close friend Margaret was the epitome of sexy elegance. She was always surrounded by the scent of Shalimar—her husband gave her a giant bottle every Christmas—and had a temper to match her hair. But, when she got angry she didn’t shriek, at least not in front of me; she got steely. One could almost see the sparks flying from her gritted teeth.

          Mother of four girls and a boy, she had a basket of hair ribbons and barrettes hanging by a ribbon from a hook on the back of every bathroom door, a practice I copied the moment I had a home of my own. The upstairs sunporch was the girls’ dormitory, a row of beds stretching the length of the room, each with its unique quilt. A glass-fronted cabinet of Madame Alexander dolls resided in the upstairs hallway. The whole house was filled with warmth and style.

          It is my belief that much of my standardized testing success was due to the Wff-n-Proof game given to the children of the family for Christmas one year.

          This is my clearest memory of Margaret: she was driving her two oldest daughters and my sister and I to a school event, and she was wearing a white pleated skirt. Stepping into the driver’s seat of her Mustang convertible (what else?), she lifted her skirt, revealing a peach-colored slip with deep lace edging. She draped the skirt over the back of the bucket seat of her car to preserve the press. I was awestruck.

          When she was given a diagnosis of terminal cancer, she telephoned my mother: “The first thing I thought was, ‘Oh no’; the second was ‘But I have so many books I want to re-read.’”  

          She never knew how I idolized her. Or, maybe she did and graciously accepted her due.

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